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Our Wedding Cake Story

It started when I booked an order for Red Ribbon Cakes by Design at Jupiter St. Makati City. First and foremost I have nothing against the company or any of its employees. So here goes my story, I ordered a cake last February 1, 2011. It was a picture cake; boiled icing and the design on the sides of the cake were like christening a baby. Anyway, that is not my problem; all I just wanted was our picture to be there in the cake, no more, no less.
So the event of which our wedding anniversary is scheduled on Feb. 15, 2011 so there is ample time to prepare the cake. At that time I was thinking of another design, but when I happen to see the picture cake, I liked it but the problem was I don’t have my USB along with me so that I can give it to the person in charge. But she assured me that it’s okay since they will give me the email address on where I can send the picture which is 5r in size to match the cake.
Anyway I emailed them the picture the night I have ordered and paid the cake. I was busy minding other things before our wedding anniversary so I don’t have time to check emails. But even if I do have spare time, I see to it that I can open my gmail to see if there will be any news about my cake and I suppose everything was all right. Now the time came when my hubby arrived as well as my mother in law so I got so busy doing errands and touring them Philippines particularly the spots near our place where I can roam them to enjoy the view. This lady from Red Ribbon a day before our BIG EVENT called the house to inform me that they did not receive my picture via email.
Strange since I have a carbon copy of that email to my hubby and yet he received it, but I don’t know on their part on why they didn’t get the email. Next question is they keep on calling the “kasambahay”(helper) we have who idea at all in the cake that I ordered. In short the cut off to create the cake I wanted never happened since they didn’t have my so called picture.
The employee already said sorry so I accepted it but I told her that I need to ask for a full refund since my cake will just be a plain cake with only names and wedding greetings on it and again with silly designs on the side. The lady say that they can refund my money in whatever date I wanted to drop by their shop so I ended the conversation thinking that we will never have our cake on our big day. I was really disappointed since I know that Red Ribbon service was fine and they have the best cake ever.
The following day, our wedding anniversary, I was surprise that someone from Red Ribbon called me. But 2 minutes before that call, Red Ribbon delivery came into our house and delivered the cake that I really don’t wanted but since they are already there, I didn’t make it a big issue so I already accepted the sorry cake. Now the employee called me to say sorry again because by the time they have informed their delivery to be cancelled, the truck went already so in short, Red Ribbon has a big problem in coordinating their delivery and confirming their customer if they have a problem with the cake.
I don’t like to spoil my big day with just that so I didn’t think of it at all. But every time I see our cake, me and hubby just have a laugh on it, good thing the cake still taste good which is by the way mocha flavored boiled icing. What will you do if you are in my shoes?

We just added a mini Cake Topper and inverted the Red Ribbon tag on that cake
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Top View of the Cake, what a design..
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What a Delightful Wedding Wine

My heart was full of joy when we had our 4th Wedding Anniversary last February 15th, 2011 in our native home in Makati City, Philippines. It was just a simple one which is if you were a Christian; you would know what a "Marriage Renewal of Vow" would mean. We did stand in front of our family and loved ones and a few invited guests. It was very intimate and private and it was officiated with our Pastor friend.
The ceremony didn't take that long, what was important was that we are renewing our vows as husband and wife in front of God who is the author of our life and to whom we made our vow. The event started at 3pm and lasted till 5pm which all guests and friends feasted with us as we celebrate our great day. I was fascinated with what my husband bought for a wine. It was a red wine from South of Goa named Wood Peckers St. Ann's Goa Vinko Porto. It was a 750ml bottle of red wine fermented and sweet which is good for a wedding toast. I have tasted a lot of red wines from the past and I haven't tasted such sweetness a grape would be in this wonderful and delightful red wine. The texture was smooth, it was 14% v.v. alcohol content but it was sweet symbolical to the couple who is having their wedding toast.


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You may say that the red wine was like rice wine but when your tongue tasted it, the grape was just there and the smell is as good as grape which is not smoked in taste and in smell just like any other red wine that I have tasted before. I know what a good red wine is when you tasted it; it doesn’t have any after taste which is bad. I also like St. Ann’s Goa Vinko Porto wine because it was affordable, imagine 750ml for only Rs200 which is very cheap but the quality is really fine. For me, I can say that I can suggest this red wine to all my friends who were looking for a sweet celebration drink which is just fine to drink. It was light and good for ladies also and I will definitely buy for more.

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What is the purpose of Unity candle, Cord and Veil in Weddings?

They are all symbolisms in weddings and they are just needed to represent the couple in their wedding day. Whether it sounds superstitious or not, our relationship does not depend on such symbols. It is still the obligation of the couple to do their responsibilities to their spouse and it is still God who should be at the center of every relationship.
Now going back to the question of the purpose of having such items, well it is all traditional. This is just my opinion about the Unity Candle, the Cord and the Veil in wedding ceremonies. Most of what your secondary sponsors would be playing a role in your wedding is the participation of each on what item should they handle. I don’t know where it all started on these symbolisms but it has been running from generations to generations of every supposedly “Christian weddings”.
A unity candle lights the way of the couple while the cord symbolizes as the one that will bind the couple and the veil as to cover both the couple in unity and purity. Whether this is true or not, it will just depend on the couple. The most important thing here is the love and respect of each other and how they will nourish that love to continue on as long as they live.
It is the responsibility of each (bride and the groom) to make the relationship work. It is not how much you spend on your wedding day, or on how much does the candle worth or what is the design of your cord and how long and strong is your veil. These items only symbolizes of what a couple should be looking forward but does not signify whether their relationship would last for long since I have seen a lot of couples who tied the knot particularly celebrities who have extravagant weddings but ended up in divorce which God hates.
I have nothing against celebrity weddings. I have just stated an example that it is not the amount of the wedding that is worth; it is the presence of God and your family that witnesses the unity of the couple who exchanges their vow. A Unity Candle by the way is the one that both the male and female candle sponsors light up together. I have heard long time back that it is bad to see a candle being flamed off after it was being light up, since they say that one of the couple will die. Well, in reality all people will die, no one knows when and that issue is of course not true, whether a candle would be flamed off or not.
About the Cord, well it is composed of gold coins and some uses a white braided cord (the usual one). Whether the cord breaks off, it has nothing to do with the broken vows or relationship of the couple. Again as I can say, this is another fallacy. Our marriage does not depend on the cord that we used during the wedding. So don’t be so superstitious about it including the veil. Be more concern on how to keep the vow you made before God. Both couple should work hand in hand in order to keep the marriage long lasting.

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